The Sixth Tone is an English news website covering stories in China. A DKU (Duke Kunshan University) student just won a writing contest organized by them with an essay titled Moxa, Receipt, Money, and Generations. It is a candid and touching account on how her father's obsession with moxa damaged their family.
This makes me think that perhaps many of our students also similar family issues. If you are in such a situation, reading the memoir The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls might be helpful.
The book is one of the most fascinating memoirs which I have ever read. It recounts her extremely unusual upbringing in a dysfunctional family. Her parents were both smart, creative, and loving. But they were also utterly irresponsible. Jeannette's father is an alcoholic. And Often, it is the Jeannette and her siblings who took care of their parents. The book made me feel sorry for Jeannette and angry for the parents. But I could also see that it was them who brought Jeannette some of her happiest memories. And these hardship Jeannette had to endure when she was young made her the resilient and resourceful women she became. The lesson I took from the book is this –
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